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1 FF News: 'The Omar Abdulla Show,'-5 on Fri Jun 17, 2011 6:44 pm

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Duration-45 minutes

The 'Omar Abdulla,' Show

Filmed July16

Welcome to 'The Omar Abdulla,' show our third broadcast on Islamic Television, Zee-Tv and related websites...Today, we will be discussing ways of improving ones health after intoxication of drugs, alcohol or any infected disease that has caused trauma in your life...Please feel free to call our offices at 012 3703469 or 0860Footprints or send us an email to have a topic discussed and featured on our show...In studio today, we have Mr. Rafiq Mayet from the Magaliesberg Health Centre, Dr. Shamim Khota from the drug rehabilation Centre in Lenasia and Miss Sakeena Joosub-a university student at the local University...

Omar Abdulla: Welcome to our guests...I received an email from Mohammed Paruk from Durban North who is currently on drugs and has problems in his marriage with his family...What advice do you have for him and what can he do to improve his lifestyle opportunity...

Rafiq Mayet: My advice would be to visit our health centre and we will help you...It also depends what type of drugs you are on-we cater for patients who are on marijuana, heroine, cocaine and related other drugs...We also cater for persons who are on alcohol and other related 'bad habits,' of society...My advice would be to Mohammed to invest in yourself to better your family and lifestyle...No family likes a man who is on any addiction...

Sakeena Joosub: My personal story was that I was dating a guy who was on Marijuana...At that time we sent him to the Magaliesburg Health Centre and found that he was found guilty to smoke one of those joints and understood the risk of taking drugs...It is a proven fact that drugs distort ones thinking, ones mindset and ones health...It is also a proven fact that the drugs smoked affect the brain cells of the brain that limit creativity...It is unfortunate that we have Muslim dealers and Muslim smokers in society that we have to repair...If you cannot afford the rehabilitation centres there are various organizations that can sponsor your needs...

Omar Abdulla : Mr. Rafiq Mayet will remember me because I served 48 days in rehabilitation council more than a year ago for smoking marijuana...With Allah's grace I have stopped smoking the dreaded drug because I seen what it can do to a persons lifestyle and thinking...Drugs is a big no-no and do not be influenced by smoking any type of drug...Getting off the dreaded drug helped me find a wife and win in my business and gain the respect of my parents...Do not throw your life away for the sake of the brand...Your life is much more important to you than you think....

Rafiq Mayet: Yes, take Omar as an example...One year ago he was finished by his friends by smoking this drug and it changed his focus and mindset...I remember he told me that he lost over a billion rand in the share market and lost women that he once loved...Look where he is today with our support...I must say his parents kept him at home to secure their son and he had stopped all this useless thinking...Mashallah he has also gained twenty-pounds...There are many advantages to change your life off drugs, off alcohol, off any intoxicating mind altering drug...Here in a perfect example in Abdulla...Follow his example and you will be smiling for a long time...

Dr. Shamim Khota: I have done ample research about drugs and why people take drugs...Very often children are spoilt in their youth by drugs or take drugs as a form of relaxation...I have never heard of Abdulla so i will not be able to comment on his story by his infection on drugs...We all know that drugs is mind-altering and sometimes you can think you are the king of the universe and sometimes you think that you are whatever fetish desires you have...The repair process normally takes 48-60 days whereby the patient is changed by playing sports and gets involved in various activities to help change his life...The way to stop drugs is change your friends, change your habits, change your thinking and create a positive impact with Allah...I am not sure about the Magalisberg Health Centre, but I know that drugs change people...The time to stop is now...Otherwise you might risk the future with your family, your children, your community and your future...

Rafiq Mayet: What we do to change the person in these 48 days is perhaps life-changing...The individual is put into the 'steam and sauna,' to sweat off the drugs in the cells of the body and is forced to play a single sport per day...The individual also attends workshops on a daily basis and given medication to repair his lost brain cells...The individual eats three meals per day provided by our chef in the kitchen...The individual gets to tell his story affected by drugs and how he plans to change his life off drugs...The full program costs R13 500 for 48 days and will be paid in full before the course starts...For further details view our website-also built by Omar Abdulla and company...We should take note that drugs can cause a major shift in the mind and balance in emotions and can often cause dis-respect attifude and change in ones heart...Omar had told me that he lost his love of his life by smoking drugs and within weeks from the centre he was in love again and making money with his business...Remember that you should not change for people-change for yourself...Look how well and Mashallah he looks today-I am shocked...His noor and 'good looks,' have come back...!

Dr. Shamim Khota: One must remember that although drugs is illegal in South Africa the act of doing drugs is against the act of South Africa...One must not be influenced by ones friends, because that's where it starts...One must take note that whatever mind-altering substance one is on, one can change no-matter how bad the situation...

Omar Abdulla: Back in a moment...!

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Omar Abdulla: I received a call from Aadila Samrod from Benoni saying that her husband is currently on drugs and what can she do to help her husband 'get back,' into his normal state and repair his mind off the drug of cocaine...

Rafiq Mayet: He can choose to come to our Rehabilitation Centre away from you and just relax and speak to some of the people we have...Sometimes, and I don't mean this in a bad way-the husband goes on drugs because of the pressure from his beloved wife or his family...Maybe he just needs time away-So take him on a romantic holiday, if you don't want to send him to the centre...The centre is primary for residents who are on drugs for longer than two years...The choice is yours....

Dr. Shamim Khota: I would also suggest that you cannot stop his habit and you cannot divorce him unless the situation has become abusive...In that case try talking to him...You cannot spoon feed him by watching his every move-if talking does not work-Speak to his parents about the situation...Remember that Allah will not give you a problem that you cannot handle...!

Omar Abdulla: Is the process the same for persons who are affected by drugs and persons who are affected by alcohol or persons who are affected by traumatic ailments that they cannot deal with??

Dr. Shamim Khota: Treating people on drugs and alcohol varies although the process is the same...If a person has been diagnosed with Cancer or HIV the process is perhaps different because this is a long term disease that probably the local hospital will refer you too...Our topic of discussion is drugs and alcohol and dealing with the core of the family affected by these habits....

Omar Abdulla: You talk of habits Doctor-but Gambling, prostitution,cheating and many other crazes are also habits that our viewers experience...If there was a 'general advice,' that you would offer, what would it be...??

Dr. Shamim Khota: We have the Department of Health in all cities in South Africa that offer services for these addictions...Honestly Omar, if the viewers want to change, it depends in what stage they are currently in...If they want to stop gambling-speak to their spouses about the addiction-if they are concerned about prostitution between males and females-speak to their parents and if cheating is a problem than your spouse might be able to forgive you or not...

Omar Abdulla: Prostitution between males and females??

Dr. Shamim Khota: You would not believe the amount of females that visit male escourts...But that is another topic altogether....

Omar Abdulla: Rounding off our topics, I have a last email from Wesley Debeers who is an-alcoholic for the last thirty years and has been to several centres for rehabilitation...I received the email from his wife asking what must she do about this scenario...??

Sakeena Joosub: Throw him in the garbage tin...Sometimes that's what our husbands deserve if they cannot change...I am serious-Sometimes the best answer to a habitual man is prove who is woman...!

Rafiq Mayet: She cannot do that because we do not want to create a divorce in their relationship...Our Health Centre is the best in the country-What we do at our centre is make 'your problems,' our problems...No failure is a failure unless you say it is...

Omar Abdulla: That's all we have for today...Join us tomorrow where we will discuss employment benefits and strategies in the office or at home to increase sales in your business...Until Tomorrow from Footprints Filmworks and 'The Omar Abdulla,' Show...

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Episode 4

Filmed-July 21

Duration-45 minutes

'The Omar Abdulla Show,'

Omar Abdulla: Welcome to this the fourth episode of 'The Omar Abdulla Show....'-produced by Footprints Filmworks...Today, in studio we have 'marketing managers,' and personalities from South Africa and The United States who join us via Skype-including Mr. Shameel Joosub, Mrs Suze Orman, Mr. Mustaq Brey and Mr. Ak Peer...Today, we will be discussing ways of growing ones business and ways of improving customer service, improving 'customer relationships,' improving revenue and other aspects of business....Welcome to our g u e s t s....An introduction by our guests and a quick snapshot about their leadership qualities is addressed and ways to improve 'your business,' for the better...

Shameel Joosub: My name is Shameel, and I am the Managing Director of Vodacom in South Africa for the last twelve years...I started the Vodaworld and together with the nation we have built our networks in South Africa...Your question Mr. Abdulla of improving ways in business is simple...Marketing is the 'most fundermental,' tool in any business and ones business can only grow with the employment of staff, the creation of 'new technology,' the asset management program and giving back to your community with sincere attitude and finesse...

Suze Orman: Thank you for having me on your show...I was voted the 'Worlds greatest sales-personality,' because of my understanding of sales and marketing...I have helped more people in the United States become millionaires after my mentor Napoleon Hill...My approach is simple...I follow a set guideline of tools available in the books that I have written...It also depends on the type of work you do and wheather you are working for a business or self-employed...If you are working for a business and earning a salary-Most questions I get asked are about sales and promotion...If you are an owner of your own business than the tools are also simple...When I appeared on the Oprah Winfrey Show I gave advice that the key to sales is as easy as KISS-Keep IT SIMPLE STUPID...

AK Peer: I am the Managing Director of LA Group LTD and associated companies listed on the Johannesburg Stock Exchange...We grew up very traditional with our fathers having stores in Cape Town...When my father passed away my brother and I worked our business into new relationships and listed the small-store business on the Stock Exchange and created an asset wealth in Western Cape, Gauteng, Limpopo and Polokwane...Our business is more than thirty years old and the company has newly made billions of rands because of our mergers with other companies...My advice to the viewers is realistic with an 'attitude of today...' I have read Napoleon Hill's books and understand how he built his people into millionaires...With our business it all starts with the staff-If your staff are unhappy-then you have problems...If you have just started a 'new-business,' advertising is an option or one can consider promoting ones business by family, friends, community and then the country...The old saying of Rome was not built in a day-still stands...

Mr. Mustaq Brey: I have a similiar story to Mr. Ak Peer...My company name is Brimestone and we have investments in Old Mutual, Oasis, Footprints Filmworks and other merger investments as part of our branches in the country...I also have a saying from Rome...There was once an Italian Man who prayed to God each day to win the lotto...Then one day the Lord came down to him and said-Purchase a lotto ticket...We can think that luck plays a vital role in referrals of business-but one has to put the effort in and what I have learnt is that 'have the end vision in mind...'

Omar Abdulla: Take me as an Example...When I was twenty-three years old I was trading the stock markets and forex markets and was doing really well for myself...I earned myself almost a billion rand in two years trading the markets, then I lost what I had created and the contacts I had built up...What would your advice be to a person who knew and had the wealth and now has to start from ground-zero...??

AK Peer: Mr. Abdulla-your new business of Footprints Filmworks is almost seven years old-so you have changed your business and you have learnt from your mistakes...I often get interviewed on Cape Talk and residents ask me how to excel their businesses or business...No knowledge is wasted son and remember that with every failure-success is bound to happen...The rule of business is always add the future discount rate to multiply rewards...Lets say for an example a viewer is earning R10 000 per month and that person chooses to earn R50 000 per month...Write down what the business can do to match the income of R50 000 including expenses...You will draw the business to you eventually...Another thought would be the event of tomorrow...Our store business has major competition and ways of marketing your business is taking the oppositions business...Remember a rand has to be spent if earned....

Shameel Joosub: I am an employed staff member of Vodacom and sometimes the board issues me warnings if I do not match goals set by the 'board of directors...' If you are a leader in a business position and if goals fail-remember that tomorrow-the sun will rise...We have to match targets of multi-billion rand targets and a new invention by Telkom or other networks culminates our business...Research the market you are in and keep to a set routine...I remember when I started at Vodacom I use to wake up at 6:am and come home only during weekends...The organization had let me sleep at the office because there was so much work to be done...Dedication is the key to success in any business...To add to Mr. Peer's comments-if you are getting paid a certain salary-and choose that promotion-remember a ladder has many steps and the higher you climb the the better...We often read at 'its lonely at the top,' well...It's not...Change your belief systems about money and you change your income...

Omar Abdulla: I was reading an interesting fact that says that 5000 'new-businesses,' will open in the next five years in South Africa...Is there a way to purchase 'mini shares,' in their companies to help them grow towards the future and what type of business would you advice is a secure investment....??

Mustaq Brey: Investments that reap between 8-15 percent is property investments and lump-sum bank deposits...Investments that reap between 12-19 percent is the Stock Market...Investments that reap between 15-25 percent is ones own business investment-into ones business of choice....Investments that reap between 20-50 percent per annum is the forex market...So, Omar-you were playing with fire in your 'young days...' My advice to viewers is never repeat old mistakes and remember to hedge your investment of choice...If you have received a gift of one million rand even out to earn an average of 20 percent on the investment....!Let your money work for you and don't work for your money...

Omar Abdulla: Back in a moment....

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Omar Abdulla: Welcome back...During the break we received a call from Shaheen Essop a person who says that he invested in business that failed and started a new business with a new partner-but is afriad to repeat mistakes of the past...He asks the panel for advice...??

Suze Orman: One can understand when one is afraid to enter into a new business with a partner...The number one reason businesses liquidate in The United States is because business do not follow the laws of business...I am going to give you four laws of business that you MUST follow...Number one-Service is the most important elemant in a business...Number 2-The customer is always right...Number three-Never be afraid to joke and engage in conversation with your customer...Number four-Always call back to ask for referrals...Referrals is the 'number one,' source of growing ones business 'beyond borders...'

Shameel Joosub: I once thought of opening my own business and realized that working for a corporate business is the way to go because we get to engage with different nations and people...I am sorry to say our Indian way of business is so-'outdated...' The days of trading and grocery stores is out-dated...I personally believe that our sons of tomorrow must learn to step forward their fathers teachings by taking the approach of Jonathan Ackerman and company...Trust is the most important elemant in business...We at Vodacom have always supported business with a scope for tomorrow and the investment of the future is today...

AK Peer: I enjoyed listening to your laws of business, but I have a certain of my laws that I follow as well...Number one-Never be afraid to pick up the telephone and market your business...Number two-Giving back to the community always 'brings you luck in your business...' Number three-Daily promotion-internally and externally is a MUST...And lastly a businessman who does not believe and love his business will never be a success in his environment...

Omar Abdulla: Thanks for that...We have a question from audience member Zakiyyah Kaloo who just started her business five months ago and plans to become the largest bridal company in South Africa-what advice does our panel offer her...??

Shameel Joosub: If you want to grow your business Zakiyyah-grow yourself...Remember that God answers all prayers and as one of the guests said-prepare a list of potential people who want to get married, match your expense list of R50-000.00, advertise your business-wherever you can and learn more about your business...Very often we pride ourselves that we are 'the best,' in the market only to attend another wedding...Remember your friend Omar who lost in business and remember that no knowledge is wasted...Over time-businesses evolve and remember the market cannot be fooled...You can market and promote your business as best as you want-you also have to know your product well...I remember when I started Vodacom one of the seniors told me before advertising comes product and before product comes practise...

Omar Abdulla: We have a final question from an email that I received...The question asks one of the Directors of the company how does one maintain zest, passion, lust and 'magic,' in ones business on a daily business...??

Suze Orman: Zest and passion are tools of feelings that motivate one to work in business...A business cannot run if one day you wake up and 'you are not in the mood,' and the next day you want to work...How I prepare the many millionaires I have spoken to is draw a map diary-from the first day of the month to the last day of the month and place your appointments that certain things you choose to achieve in your life...A life worth remembering is worth recording....

AK Peer: The destruction of most businesses is failure to plan...Plan and follow that act...Wheather you are a housewife, a banker, a stock-broker or a patron to work envirnment...The way I motivate my 'marketing staff,' that I employ is that they should reach four appointments per day with twenty calls to potential investors...It does the trick in my business...

Omar Abdulla: Thank you to our guests...Tomorrow we will be discussing dating and 'new and improved,' ways of attraction in love, romance and sex...Until tomorrow...Cheers...!

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Episode Five

Filmed-July 23

Duration-45 Minutes

'The Omar Abdulla,' Show...

Omar Abdulla: Welcome to another episode of 'The Omar Abdulla,' Show...This show is age-restricted, so if you are a viewer younger than 18 years years old, please kindly switch-off the screen for this episode about love, sex, and romance in relationships between marriages, partners and girlfriends and boyfriends...In studio today, we have 'our one and only,' guest Sakeena Joosub from the local university, Miss Elna Mcintosh and Dr. Malene Wasserman to discuss 'pillow-talk,' between husband and wife-primary....Welcome guests....!



Elna Mcintosh: Thank you for having us...Let us start off...I am a sexual therapist that hails in Johannesburg-if you are having problems creating the 'sexual interest,' in your marriage-you can call me directly on 0117871222...Often marriages and relationships fail because of the loss of interest between partners, because one partner has 'fallen-out-of-love,' or because one has an affair...I am here to help you remain faithful and keep the 'juice&spark,' in your relationship alive...We welcome calls from guests and talks from the studio audience...

Sakeena Joosub: I am a regular guest of Omar's on his network base and I am here to assist the male or female with dating questions to help create and maintain the love in a relationship and marriage....As Elna said-I am here to answer your questions as well...

Dr. Marlene Wasserman: Hello all...I am a relationship personality that specializes in sexual intercourse, Kama-Sutra and other sexual positions to stimulate the sexual fantasies between men and women...I also specialize in helping relationships acquire the love-interest and sexual satisfaction between couples...



Omar Abdulla: Okay, lets begin...I have had over 200 girlfriends in my past relationships and I sometimes think about the women I have dated and reasons why I failed...Perhaps it was arrogance, perhaps it was un-satisfaction, perhaps it was they were 'not my style,' or perhaps I fell 'out-of-love,' with them...What advice would you suggest for other people who have dated many women to over-come this phobia...??

Sakeena Joosub: I would like to say to Omar that many of the women he dated were perfect...Infact all of them were...The problem was him...Very often we go into relationships trying to overcome another relationship...If you have had your heart-broken allow yourself atleast six-eight months before you jump into bed with another person...As a muslim we are not allowed to engage into any sexual relationship before marriage but with the modern world women and men are having sex much younger than 18....I would also suggest that it's difficult to overcome a relationship if you are not truly honest...Men and women want different things from a relationship and the reason Omar failed is because I know his 'playboy styles,' in school and university...Dating four-six women at a time taught him a lesson not to fuss with a womens heart...One day you will experience the heart-broken attitude as well...

Omar Abdulla: I hate to swear on national television so I rather keep my mouth shut...I am going through a stage in my life that I lost over a billion rand in business, lost women that I once loved, and constantly have fights with siblings for no reason...Call me a dumb-ass or dumb folded for feeling this way...I feel that my dreams have become nightmares and my prayers to the Lord are going un-answered...Was it something that I did or failed to do that caused me so much pain in my past that my pleasures are 'some-what,' blocked...??

Dr Marlene Wasserman: Omar, I admire you for being honest and open about how you feel...Thank You to share his true story with us, especially at your level...My advice to you is time is the best healer...You cannot sit and moap and groan all day about your losses...What happened to the motivation talk I watched the other morning on 'The Omar Abdulla Show,' and if you could open up more to me, I would be able to help you...

Omar Abdulla: You see Doctor, when you have the world and the universe at your fingertips and within an instant it's gone...It's a tough pill to swallow...You see Doctor, when you are the most famous person in school, in university, in the community and at one stage the country, you suddenly have people who claim to love you-spit in your face, it's a tough pill to swallow...You see Doctor, when you are the 'most-admired,' person by people who love and respect you to suddenly become nothing, it's a tough pill to swallow, especially if's its from your family, from your friends, from your 'fellow community leaders,' and from country folk...

Dr. Marlene Wasserman: You say you dated over 200 women Omar, I can sense a sense of pride in your ego, do you want to go off air to discuss your issues or would you like to come out...??

Omar Abdulla: Doctor, to the persons who I dated and hurt-the least I can say is sorry...In the rush I felt all the 200 womens pain in one go because I somewhat was selfish and un-sharing towards them...I feel that the hurt I caused them bounced off on me and I am finding it difficult to forgive myself...You see Doctor, when I was in school and university, women would 'drop-dead,' for me, and I loved the attention...Until I found the women whom I loved so much-more than a million lifetimes and I got to be the fool at the end...You see Doctor, when you are the highest brand to a woman and suddenly you are not-you feel there is no room to love anymore, you feel that there is no cause in love, you feel that love is the worst possible solution, you feel that you could just stop loving forever...

Dr. Marlene Wasserman: I think you have all the audience glued to 'your story,' Omar-without names briefly explain the feelings of love for these women and elaborate more...I am shaking just listening to you...I don't think I have met a man with so much in him at one go...!!

Omar Abdulla: I think that you love each person differently and it depends at what stage of love you are...When I was 16 to about 19 I loved a woman by the name of Miss F...I loved her with every beat of my heart and no person could ever seperate us...We were in university together and our love was the most that I ever felt for anyone and the experiences we shared could perhaps cover 'romantic novels,' that would wet the appetite of the normal human being...Before we were about to marry, she had passed away, and till today I still love her...Then I fell in love with a woman who claimed to love me-she was the most gorgeous woman I dated-Miss M...She was gorgeous and loved me more than anyone could imagine...I loved Miss M, and met her on a daIly basis...I was crushed when one day I found her cheating on me-with one of my best friends...Cheating in the sleeping way...Then I met Miss A whom I loved more than life itself because I had the experiences not to repeat...I loved Miss A because she was my best friend and loved to speak to her for hours...I suppose I ran away from the relationship with Miss A because I was not ready for her pressures in business, in media, in whatever dreams she had-I was perhaps a coward in my practice...Then I met Miss Z whom I loved and taught that we could develop something only to realize she had family pressures and was not ready for a full-blown relationship...I feel that I loved each ot them in a different way but cannot find a way to forgive myself and move on...I feel that I do want a woman whom I can love and love again...I feel that I am constantly haunted by their love that I myself find it difficult to commit to another relationship...What would you say to my story and advice to me to move on, away from my past and START fresh with my new-bride of three months??

Sakeena Joosub: I must admit Omar that when you were in university with me, you were the most-popular lad and even I had a difficult time to spend with you...Do you remember that girl who use to write messages in your briefcase and wonder who use to write those letters...Well-it was me...I would say Omar that you should not worry about those women now...If they slept with other men, or are married, it's of no concern to use...Weather you broke their virginity or not-that remains for their knowledge...It is never a good think for a man to brag about whom he slept with and who he did not...Life is sometimes unfair Omar, and I hope our panel can help soothe your sorrows...If you say you are married, are you not happy??

Omar Abdulla: Back in a moment....!

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Omar Abdulla: Welcome back to our guests and viewers...I must say I shed a few tears off screen whilst we were on a break because the memories shared remembered me of my days...Back to the questions...We have a question from audience member Samuel Anderson who says that he is geeky at university and never had a girlfriend in his life...What can our panel do and say to assist him in finding his 'dream woman...'

Sakeena Joosub: When I often get picked up at university or a mall it's the approach...I am happy that you are single and it's good to save yourself for a woman who will one day appreciate you...Although cheesy pick-up lines work the best approach is a smile...A smile radiates love...A guy I once dated told me that I have six different smiles and told me how I smile each time...Pay attention to details Samuel and remember that you should never give up...It does not mean you got put-off once, you should try again, with the same women...Women love a man who is strong, funky, fun, jovial, funny and handsome...Looks play a role-even if you are unattractive you can still find a hot woman...It's how you come across and talk...

Elna Mcintosh: Samuel, never loose hope...Even the fattest, ugliest and most-unattractive of us attract pretty woman...Sometimes the ugly guys get the hot women and drive the smart cars...If it's a date you after ask one of your friend-male or female if they know of someone in the community or area for a telephone number...Women love to be amazed and talked about...I find the new-way of dating like joining mirc, mig33, prodigits or facebook not the way to find a woman...Face to face is 'old-fashioned,' but works the best...

Omar Abdulla: Thanks members for your answers...We have a last question, then we going to call it a day...The question received from Angela Cronje from the Valhalla asks the audience members what are the erroroneous zones of both men and women...??

Dr. Marlene Wasserman: Both men and women have different sexual interests depending on age...For most men it's their penis, their chest, their face and their lips...Men love to be pampered by the occasions BJ and touched and kissed in the area's mentioned...Obviously, the greatest sexual impact would be sexual intercourse...I find for women they love to be teased, 'joked around,' and spoken too before any sexual advances can take effect...Their erroneous sparks are having their breasts-touched and kissed, their virgina kissed and touched and their lips kissed...I once dated a guy who could kiss me for an hour straight-perhaps that is a great turn-on...It depends on the male or female you are in a relationship with...It's also good to ask the person where the person wants to be touched and carressed...I also found that sexual penetration has the most effect in women apart from foreplay....

Omar Abdulla: Thanks to our guests and audiences...Be back on Monday where we will be discussing ways of health and 'self-home,' remedies for the family...See you then!...



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